Cover of the Week 73 Gold Day

I never had a chance to meet Mark Linkous, the musician behind the band Sparklehorse who committed suicide late last week. But I have envied him. I envied his talent and vision in making a sort of music I dream about making. I envied him for having the sort of talent that attracts heroes of mine like Tom Waits, into a collaboration.

While I used to wish I could seem more enigmatic and mysterious as an artist, as Mark seemed to me from the outside, I have never envied the sort of mental struggle that often accompanies the dark persona of the “true” artist. I know what depression is. I know it because I have had brushes with it. It runs in my family, as I am sure it does in many of yours. There is very little inspirational when one is in such moments.

I had a well-known singer/songwriter and family at our house for dinner last night. This artist and I talked about Mark’s death and it triggered the old conversation about the relationship between depression and art. We talked about friends and relatives dealing with similar issues. We fans have lost quite a few important artists this year, like Vic Chesnutt (whose death prompted this CoTW). Too often, suicides like this are met with shock but maybe not surprise. In such cases, the particular artist’s work probably betrayed a heightened sense of urgency, as if the making of the art was necessary to the survival of the artist him/herself. It felt like the art was one of the few golden strands left binding the artist to the world. The art needed to be made.

For many fans, this sort of urgency adds a layer of authenticity that distinguishes the work of that artist over that of others. I don’t feel that way. There are many seemingly well-balanced artists who are able to produce extremely moving and/or immediate works without any more apparent suffering than the average person. I have never felt that Bob Dylan, Van Morrison, Waits, or Lucinda Williams were about to off themselves. In fact, art that is all raw emotion is rarely artful, to me. I have seen plenty of unstable confessional singer/songwriters pouring out their guts on stage and repelled as often as not.

Troubled personalities are attracted to the arts because it is another means of expression. It is difficult to put emotional turmoil into words. Art is one way to do so. There are many depressed or otherwise mentally ill people who do not get the help they need. There are many who do not have the benefit of being able to express themselves artistically.

Yet there are others out there who would not surprise us by making that choice. But a lack of surprise does not mean such an end is inevitable. And it does not mean the anguish is essential to creating. Indeed, it is often crippling, debilitating, and no good comes of it. Anguish may have been essential for particular art, though. For example, I can not imagine Skip Spence’s Oar being made by a suburban 40-something real estate broker who was a one-time contender in the world of rock. Had that person not made the choice to pay the bills in a conventional way and instead maintained the track he/she was on against all common sense, then perhaps something akin to Oar could result. Personally, I am no longer ready to try.

Mark’s death is truly a tragic loss. He created essential music. Vic was another tragic loss. The same choice by the Mummers’ Mark Horwood is another extremely sad 2010 ending to a bright light, as is the loss of all our friends who have made this choice over the years.


Deaths start to pile up as we put on the years. Facebook seems to be as much a rolling obituary as anything else. Violent deaths — murder, suicide, accidents — rarely lose the power to shock. For a while, I was thinking of the murder of my uncle in October as something from which I could remove and box away the means of death in order to be able to accept that, yes, a 63 year-old man died. So then I could accept the loss just on its own. And it did not have to be an overwhelming topic of conversation, for everyone deals with the loss of close relatives. Similarly, when friends chose to die, we could at least say that it was their choice. Now to move on and deal with the loss.

But then the conversations about my uncle continued. I am lucky enough to have life-time friends going back to elementary school, high school, and college. I have intensely deep newer friendships. They let me know through their questions and listening that this could never be simply a 63 year-old man passing away. Never mind that this was no ordinary 63 y.o., but one still extremely vital and young for his age. It is that in some senseless act, some numb kid stole our uncle/friend from us all. And now I realize that I might not ever get over that fact. I will eventually deal with loss. I am having more trouble with the means. I feel no vengeance. Just a deep and helpless sadness about how someone I loved was taken and how he spent his last breaths — at the hand of someone not worthy of even standing at my uncle’s stoop.

We should be shocked at violent deaths. We should be angry and sad and deeply troubled when someone is killed. And we should feel the same way even when it is at their own hands. I am sure Mark had the same impact on many close to him as my uncle did for me, my family, and all of his friends. His gifts were taken from us all.


This song, “Gold Day,” the CoTW this week, means a lot in my life. It was one of the first songs my daughter loved and learned the words to. She thought it was by “Sparkly Horse.” We played it every day when she was about 2-3 years old, as I drove her to and from preschool or on errands. But even without that connection, I would put this song up in my top five songs about being a parent. And granted, I am not even sure if that’s what Mark intended. But that’s what it means to me, and I put it up there with “Forever Young,” which I identified with on a profound level well before I had kids of my own. When Buffalo Tom were starting out in Amherst, we often played on the same bill as Lobster Boy, which featured Sam Dylan, Bob Dylan’s son. We became buddies. I never thought so much that, “Wow, it’s Bob Dylan’s son. I wonder what that must be like.” No, I really recall thinking, “What must it be like to be one of the people he wrote ‘Forever Young’ for.” Though we did run into him at the airport in Copenhagen a few years later when we were playing the Roskilde Festival and Bob was playing another festival. Bob had a hoodie on and mirrored shades. The airport was abuzz. We were on the same flight to JFK. Sam came over and chatted and it was about that time where I thought, “Wow. That must be weird.”

Parents and their kids, the continuum. So, why not have Lucy, now age 11, help me sing this one, “Gold Day,” once her favorite song, before she moved on to Top 40 and the ongoing discovery of her own music. Another one we used to sing was the Paul Simon song, “Father and Daughter,” the refrain of which I still can not sing without choking up.

I’m a damn old softy.

May God bless and keep you always,
May your wishes
all come true,
May you always do for others
And let others do for you.
May you build a ladder to the stars
And climb on every rung,
May you stay forever young.

— Dylan

May all your days be gold, my child.

— Linkous, rest in peace.

13 thoughts on “Cover of the Week 73 Gold Day”

  1. I've got a similar thing with Simon's "Father and Daughter." I listen to it in the car and tear up at the chorus every single time. I can't imagine anyone with daughters making it through that without some waterworks.

  2. mark schofield

    Nice, touching piece, Bill. And if you could cover something from Oar, that would be tremendous. "Weighted down by possessions, weighted down by the gun; waited down by the river, for you to come."

  3. Dude – I have to say that someday -if she's not already – Lucy's going to be pretty psyched to know that HER dad wrote "You'll Never Catch Him" about her.

  4. .: Hi Bill. Another great backstory, another great CoTW. This one is immediately a favorite, up there with Thirteen and In A Misty Morning. I've listened to it three times already, and it's playing as I type this. I love hearing Lucy sing in the chorus – please tell her I think she sounds awesome. 🙂 What a thrill it must be to be able to make music with her Dad.

    I don't have kids, but have a number of special ones in my life. One lives in Minneapolis, her name is Taytum, and another is Emily, who lives a few doors away from me. Both are 8 years old. Last year, Emily and I and her 14-year old sister, Rebecca, recorded a Taylor Swift song that she loves. Becc and I played guitar while Emily sung. It was a blast. Sometimes Em and I go to Costco for an outing, and we laugh ourselves silly.

    The stuff you are doing at the end of the song, post-vocals, is so damn haunting and effective. Is this an interpretation of the original tune or something you added yourself? The time signature disappears and the guitars and that flute-sounding instrument in the background seem to wander off by themselves. Lovely.

    You wrote, "We should be shocked at violent deaths. We should be angry and sad and deeply troubled when someone is killed. And we should feel the same way even when it is at their own hands." I agree, I imagine most agree. Like your family, mine suffered a violent death in the late-60s, and never completely recovered from it. The anger always remained.

    As for suicide, I don't know what to make of it. I've never had anyone close to me do it. But I learned recently of someone who did take her own life, and I felt oddly displaced when I learned this news. She worked in a coffee shop where some of us frequent on Sunday afternoons, and she was young, pleasant, bubbly, in love with All Things Musical. Then she stopped working there, and Carey, one of the regulars in our group, said to me out of the blue, "Remember Alison, who worked here? She suicided."

    I had no frame of reference for what he said, but I felt sad for her. I didn't know her, couldn't imagine what made her do it, but then we never know what demons with whom others wrestle in their minds and hearts. I hope she, like Mark Linkous, is at peace now.

    There is no shame in being an old softy. Peace and thank you as always for this gift.

  5. Very touching version and remembrance – hard to get away with a child singing and make it work.

    Speaking of which (and referring to being an ol' softy), I heard a song by the COTW-approved Jesse Winchester this morning (I think he just sang it, didn't write it). The way he sings the first line knocked me out. It's from a kids record – you can hear it here:

  6. Odd, only a few weeks ago I converted my 12 Jealous Roses LP to mp3, on which they covered "She May Call You Up Tonight"
    May angels lead him Home

  7. Bill,
    Sorry to hear about Sparklehorse.I recently came accross a beautiful poem called Strict Joy written by James Stephens.I don't know anything about him but I found the poem in the booklet of a cd of the same name (Strict Joy).The cd is by Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova under the name The Swell Season.You may know these two great musicians from a film called Once which is a must for people who feel the way we do about music.The poem touches on how through art we process things,especially painful or difficult things.Here's the last two lines:
    "And we cared naught that these were mournful things,
    For,in caring them,we made them beautiful.
    A couple of songs about their kids:
    John Hiatt – Georgia Rae
    John Lennon – Beautiful Boy
    Oh,and some other guy wrote one called Light in December thats not too shabby either.
    Thanks Bill

  8. Got to this late; really nice, super cool to hear your kid sing with you, I have a few and we love to mess around acoustically, do silly songs and such, but its nice to read the story and hear her help out dad.

  9. Thank you for writing the first thing I've read about Mark Linkous' passing that could let me cry the way I've needed to. As I've sat up all night thinking about Alex Chilton and Mark Linkous and how much their music meant to me and what a blow it's been to lose them both this month I haven't really been able to figure out what to do with myself. Listening to your covers of "Gold Day" and "Thirteen," two of my favorite songs, has helped me at least get some tears out of my system and I thank you for that.

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